Obama Still Debating Whether or Not to Endorse Same-Sex Marriage

Urban Christian News:  U.S. President Barack Obama addresses a crowd at the Adrienne Arsht Center for the Performing Arts, at an event dubbed the "Obama Victory Fund 2012 Kickoff Reception," on June 13, 2011 in Miami, Florida. Obama was in South Florida on his way to Puerto Rico.

Driving across the flatlands of Illinois with Barack Obama during the Senate race of 2004, Kevin Thompson sometimes found himself tutoring the candidate on gay rights.

Mr. Thompson, then a traveling aide, recalls long conversations about topics like the 1969 Stonewall Rebellion that sparked the gay rights movement, gay adoption -- Mr. Obama once volunteered that Mr. Thompson and his partner would make "great parents," Mr. Thompson recalled -- and same-sex marriage, which Mr. Obama has in the past opposed.

Mr. Thompson, an Obama supporter, is skeptical about that. "To this day," he said, "I don't think Barack Obama has any issue with two people of the same gender getting married."

Now President Obama says his views on same-sex marriage are "evolving," and as he runs for re-election he is seeking support from gay donors who want to know where he stands.

This week, he will headline a $1,250-a-plate "Gala with the Gay Community" in Manhattan, his first such event as president; on June 29, he will host a Gay Pride reception at the White House. He is doing so at time when the New York Legislature is considering whether to make same-sex marriage legal -- a vote that the president will no doubt be asked about while in New York.

The White House would not comment on whether Mr. Obama was ready to endorse same-sex marriage. But one Democratic strategist close to the White House, speaking only on the condition of anonymity, said some senior advisers "are looking at the tactics of how this might be done if the president chose to do it."

And Representative Barney Frank, a Massachusetts Democrat who is gay, said in an interview that a top adviser to Mr. Obama, whom he would not name, asked him this year, "What would be the effect if he came out for same-sex marriage?"

"My own view is that I look at President Obama's record, he was probably inclined to think that same-sex marriage was legitimate, but as a candidate for president in 2008 that would have been an unwise thing to say," Mr. Frank said. "And I don't mean that he's being hypocritical. I mean that if you live in a democratic society, it is a mix of what you think the voters want and what you think is doable."

Many gay leaders say because the president has a strong record on issues they care about -- prodding Congress to repeal the "don't ask, don't tell" policy, which barred openly gay men and lesbians from serving in the military, and withdrawing legal support for the Defense of Marriage Act, which defines marriage as between a man and a woman -- he is not under intense pressure to announce a change in his position before the 2012 election.